Last week, we had to say good-bye to Stephen's loving Aunt Peggy and to sweet Mary, who was like a Grandmother figure to me.
Loss is always heart-breaking yet this weekend as I was reflecting on these two thoughtful, caring women's lives, I find comfort in knowing they lived their lives so beautifully, loving others. And I am comforted that they are now resting in peace and are well in every way.
Mary and Aunt Peggy were love in action, through their words and acts of love to those around them.
Aunt Peggy was always kind and gentle hearted. She walked beside others with the patience of a saint. She always gifted all the grandchildren in our family 'decorate your own cookies' at Christmas and when they were little, books with their names woven throughout the story. Her presence was always welcoming and she was as selfless as a human could be.
Mary was such a love. In her compassionate way, she took me, and a handful of other moms at our church, under her wing and just loved us where we were. She walked beside me when I struggled with the church, never judging me but made sure I still knew she was there, and God was always there for me. She would have me over for tea and Entenmann's to simple talk and listen and would always impart wisdom I needed to hear. She was in charge of the bereavement committee at church and I can't imagine a better person to have sat with people whose hearts were hurting and guide them with love in such a tough time in their lives.
The common theme at both of their funerals was that they talked about faith and how they loved others well from an endless fountain of love they had.
As I enter this week,I am prayerfully turning to gratitude, thankful for these beautiful women in my life, and for their example of faith and love in action. I share this with you not for sympathy, but so that their generous lives may inspire you too.
I invite you to join me to...
pause. breathe. pray.
May we take time to be still with God, and fuel up on His love so that we can be outward facing, and loving others through our words and actions throughout our days, as Aunt Peggy and Mary so graciously did. Or maybe there is someone in your life that has inspired you by the way they lived and loved well. If so, may we take these people into our hearts and minds, and live out love in honor of them this week. And may we allow the love they gave us to continue to live on through us.
With love and hope,
Shawn